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Sarah Miller's avatar

Thank you for not only acknowledging caregiver burden, but writing about it from the standpoint of the needs of a combat veteran with PTSD. Some days I am filled with resentment and rage, and others pure compassion (though the latter took me years, because of what I have experienced from the fallout of my loved one's trauma). Not sure I'd be here without Al-Anon -- certainly wouldn't be married to the same person anymore.

I'm grateful for your work here, Adrian. Keep it up.

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Adrian Purchas's avatar

Thank you, Sarah - mental health is frustrating that way, I do find that maintain a balance can be difficult. And Al-Anon! Literally the last thing I ever thought would impact my life in such a positive way. When I walked in the doors, me and God were more like frienemies. Now, it's sticky and complicated, but I do believe I feel more compassion and less rage toward most of the outside world.

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